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A few pointers on coming of age

There is more than one way to celebrate a bar/batmitzvah

December 19, 2023 17:48
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The transition from child to adult in Judaism happens over a person’s Hebrew birthday. You can calculate a Hebrew birthday by the date and time of birth - your rabbi or rebbetzen can assist you with this.

On a girl’s 12th (Hebrew) birthday, and a boy’s 13th, they automatically become bat or barmitzvah through no action or event. Nevertheless, it is a significant milestone in a person’s life and, given the extraordinary opportunity they now have to fulfil their Godly mission, it is one that deserves celebration. That said, there are no set laws on how a bar or batmitzvah should be celebrated.

Some children may need additional support or do not want a large event. The United Synagogue has put together suggestions for a meaningful and welcoming simchah for people with varying abilities and challenges, which you can find at theus.org.uk/inclusion.

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