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We must stand tall and be proud of being Jews

In the face of hatred, I have seen so many young people proudly embracing their identity

October 19, 2023 10:07
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NEW YORK, NY - JANUARY 05: People participate in a Jewish solidarity march on January 5, 2020 in New York City. The march was held in response to a recent rise in anti-Semitic crimes in the greater New York metropolitan area. (Photo by Jeenah Moon/Getty Images)
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The first time I ever wore a kippah in public was at a criminal law lecture in London. I sheepishly entered the lecture theatre, totally consumed by self-consciousness. I was relieved when a fellow (non-Jewish) student shared his surprise about my revelation: “Hey Jonny, I didn’t know you were Jewish — good for you.”

Sadly, not every subsequent reaction was so enthusiastic. Soon after that lecture, someone on the Tube looked menacingly at me and my kippah before treading slowly, yet deliberately on my foot and then alighting the train. The first of many unpleasant encounters resulting from a seemingly innocuous head-covering. But it is one thing absorbing abuse for the crime of being Jewish oneself, but when your kids start to be vilified it is altogether more painful.

My 17-year-old son was recently walking with a friend in north-west London, days after Hamas’s atrocities in Israel had reignited the conflict. A man shouted at my son: “Yahud (“Jew” in Arabic), free Palestine!” What exactly did my son have to do with “Palestine”?

It is sad yet admirable that my son has learnt at his tender age how to respond to such Jew hatred. When he was just 12, he was on a bus on the way home from school, wearing his kippah. A fellow Jewish passenger told him, “You shouldn’t be wearing your kippah on the bus; it could get you into trouble.” My son responded with defiance: “I’m proud to be Jewish.” He taught me that instead of succumbing to fear, we can choose to stand tall, unwavering in our beliefs and steadfast in our heritage. But there are other unsung heroes in the most unexpected places.