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To the Roma, the Jewish experience is familiar

Britain persecuted Jewish people for being who they were, and my mother’s for travelling

March 30, 2023 09:29
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PRAGUE, CZECH REPUBLIC - JUNE 03: Members of Roma community parade through Old Town of Prague during the Khamoro World Roma Festival on June 03, 2022 in Prague, Czech Republic. Khamoro festival (Romani for "Sunshine") is the celebration of Roma culture, has been organised in Prague since 1999. (Photo by Gabriel Kuchta/Getty Images)
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There was much mirth when my sister bought a bungalow, complete with a cartwheel in the front garden. According to our mother, descended from a long line of Kentish Romanies, the lack of stairs and the presence of some rural and road-related memorabilia were clear signs of a Romany who’d moved “into brick”.

There were others, too. my Mum, Jacqueline, was an expert, unsurprisingly, since she and her legions of cousins had been bricked in among the gorjers (the goyim, if you like) for decades.

A restless Romany might, according to her, take up an occupation or hobby that entailed moving about the country, selling things at fairs and fetes. Then there was the jargon: chokki for shoes, yog for fire, dinlo for a fool. And surnames: Boswell, Lee, Smith.

It’s similar to the ways in which Jews recognise one another around the world. “Colours, commodities and metals,” my first (East Coast Litvaker) boss used to say, about Jewish surnames. Then there’s bageling: when one Jewish person ascertains the Jewishness of another by dropping a Jewish word or phrase into a sentence.

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