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My father didn’t want to be labelled a ‘refugee’

He was the most reasonable person on earth and should be an example to the government

April 28, 2023 11:18
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2nd December 1938: Some of the 5,000 Jewish and non-Aryan German child refugees, the 'Kindertransport', arriving in England at Harwich from Germany. (Photo by Fred Morley/Fox Photos/Getty Images)
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My father Erwin was a Polish Army officer, a doctor who spent much of the Second World War restoring daring Polish pilots injured during sorties over Germany. In June 1940, he was at La Rochelle, in France. Shortly after Dunkirk, a large number of Polish soldiers were rescued from La Rochelle. Many died under enemy bombing.

The small, Scottish coal ship on which Erwin embarked took him to Glasgow, and from there to the requisitioned castle in Perthshire used for the injured Polish pilots.
Erwin had left behind his family, including his middle-aged parents, his sister and her family, his young wife, and their baby daughter Renata. All were murdered by the Nazis, except little Renata.

Renata survived, hidden and protected in sometimes nightmarish circumstances. Frederika, a distant relative who ensured Renata’s survival throughout the war, was part of Jewish underground operations within Poland. In 1945, Frederika, working as a civil servant in Poland under a nom de guerre acquired to conceal her Jewish family background, was able through the Red Cross to reunite Renata and Erwin in London. Erwin and Frederika married and I am their son.

My father was a lifelong Anglophile. The huge sorrow of his losses he rarely spoke about. He was possibly the most reasonable person on earth, a clever and thoughtful man who made the best of things. For him, becoming a GP in Burnley was truly becoming an Englishman. He refused to be classed as a refugee: he had been offered UK nationality as a recognition of his military service.

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