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Caring, sharing Mitzvah Day is the antidote to prejudice

Mitzvah Day is often the first interaction people have with Jews and it’s a chance to meet us at our best

March 24, 2023 10:46
Kim Leadbeater - photo by Yakir Zur
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This past week, I took my second trip to Windsor Castle as part of the Senior Faith Leadership Programme. The SFLP focuses on developing leadership, which is inter-disciplinary by nature, affecting people from all walks of life, and engaging with the diversity of human experience. The programme explores the forms of co-existence and friendship that are possible between faith traditions, while maintaining their difference and diversity.

The focus of this fellowship was to engage on the topic of conflict and difficult conversations.  On a strike-disrupted train ride to Windsor, I recalled the warnings on how we may feel triggered during a series of potentially difficult conversations. Yet I strongly believed I had the skills to deal successfully with these difficult situations.

On day two, we were placed in a conflict simulation. Looking around the table of interfaith leaders wondering how I would navigate this space, I was reminded of the following Rabbi Sacks quote:  “The test of faith is whether I can make space for difference. Can I recognise God’s image in someone who is not my image, whose language, faith, ideals, are different from mine? If I cannot, then I have made God in my image instead of allowing him to remake me in his.”

Often when attending courses, I look to the main speakers, experts in their chosen field, for nuggets of successful leadership wisdom I can use in my work life. But often, the people holding the wisdom are not only those at the lectern but seated right next to me. We can forget that the greatest gifts of learning are through the connection we make with those around us. And making space for difference is how it starts.