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How Dov Forman reunited Lily Ebert with her brother's lost book
The great-grandson of the Holocaust survivor travelled to Hungary to rescue an 80 year old book of Exodus
July 21, 2023 11:29
The great-grandson of the Holocaust survivor travelled to Hungary to rescue an 80 year old book of Exodus
July 21, 2023 11:29Holocaust survivor Lily Ebert has been reunited with a Hebrew book that belonged to her younger brother, who was murdered in Auschwitz as a teenager.
The precious book is the “only link” that author and Tiktok star Lily has to her beloved brother.
The volume of Shemot (Hebrew name for the book of Exodus) contains Bela’s signature, and is now at least 79 years old. It remained in Eberts’ hometown of Bonyhád in Hungary for decades after the family was sent to the death camp.
Lily's great-grandson Dov Forman travelled to the town last week and brought the book back to London.
“Someone whose father had an antique shop had seen my great-grandmother and me on Hungarian TV and recognised the surname, bought the book, and got in touch with me,” Forman said.
Honouring my great grandmother Lily Ebert, a Holocaust survivor.
— Dov Forman (@DovForman) July 16, 2023
Visiting her hometown, her father's grave and childhood home. The main purpose of this trip: picking up a book with proof of her younger brother's existence. He was murdered in Auschwitz.
Join me on this journey. pic.twitter.com/4bmoVN67e5
“It’s very rare that a book like this would survive from then. Nazis wanted to destroy Jewish life and all Jewish existence. There’s no grave of Bela, or any other possessions, just this book. It is the only link we have to him."
While in Bonyhád, Forman was able to pray in a synagogue that still stands in the town, even though there are no longer any Jews, and visited the grave of his great-great-grandfather – Lily’s father – who died in 1942 before the Nazis invaded Hungary.
This morning I visited my great grandma’s hometown, Bonyhad, once vibrant with its Jewish life.
— Dov Forman (@DovForman) July 17, 2023
The empty synagogue, a haunting reminder of the effects of the Holocaust.
Praying there, as one of Lily's 36 great-grandchildren, I stand strong, a testament to enduring Jewish life. pic.twitter.com/VusCKBSKxM
“Lily doesn’t have memories of the book itself, but her sister in Israel who is still alive remembers it and specifically the blue stamp on the cover.
“When I brought it back from her town of birth and showed it to her, she had two reactions,” he continued.
“First, she burst into tears. She said the Jews of Bonyhád will never be forgotten and the Nazis will never succeed. A few moments after that I think the emotional weight set in and she became just so happy to have it.”
Lily's brother Bela Ebert was 13 and had just celebrated his bar mitzvah when he was sent by train with his family to Auschwitz-Birkenau in July 1944. Bela was committed to his Jewish faith and refused to eat during a day of fasting, even as he travelled by train to Auschwitz, where he, his sister Berta, and mother Nina were murdered almost immediately.
“Bela was adamant about not eating, even after his mother insisted that he should, not knowing how long their journey [would] be or when they might have their next meal,” Lily’s great-grandson Dov Forman, 19, told the JC.
“They had very little food at all, just one last piece of bread. His mother tried to get him to eat it, but still he resisted and reaffirmed his commitment to fasting.”
The book will remain in Lily’s possession as she recovers in hospital from a recent fall.
The Shoah survivor received “tens of thousands” of prayers before and after going into serious surgery under general anaesthetic last week.
“She is recovering well. She is a survivor,” Forman said.
As one of Lily's 36 great-grandchildren, Dov co-authored Lily's Promise: How I Survived Auschwitz and Found the Strength to Live with her, released in 2021.
Earlier this year Lily was awarded an MBE by King Charles for her services to Holocaust education.