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Money-making is not all evil

Money-making is not all evil

October 3, 2008 11:39

By

Miriam Shaviv,

Miriam Shaviv

2 min read

In the Chief Rabbi's pre-Rosh Hashanah programme on BBC1 on Monday, Rabbi Sacks complained that too much emphasis is put on making money, and not enough on bringing up children. As the JC's TV reviewer Simon Round says opposite, no one can argue with that. And yet, Rabbi Sacks misses a crucial point.]

Many of those intent on bringing up children have no choice but to be more focused on money than ever. With the average property prices in urban areas still 6.1 times average earnings, according to Halifax; with the cost of a childminder reaching £800-£1,000 per child, per month; with food and energy bills rising daily, is it any wonder that the average number of children per family has dropped from 2.0 in 1971 to 1.8 in 2007? Any more than two children is simply beyond the reach of a large part of our population, and even two is a financial strain for many.

For Jewish families, the situation is even worse. As has been frequently pointed out (but no one seems to have taken much notice), the cost of Jewish life is substantial. Kosher food, synagogue membership and Jewish-studies voluntary contributions are just the beginning. Our major festivals are expensive to celebrate. Social convention demands extravagant barmitzvahs and weddings which are beyond the means of many. But most expensive of all, participation in our most intense and best-served communities requires residence in some of the UK's dearest areas. Most of my friends are not materialistic, yet I regularly hear that couples with two, sometimes three offspring cannot even consider more children, although they desperately want them, because they would be pushed into a poverty trap. The result is a real demographic hit to Anglo-Jewry.

Perhaps it is time to acknowledge that for most of us, even in our supposedly "wealthy" community, setting money-making as a top priority is not an obstacle to family life. Rather, it is the only way to achieve one.