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TikTok tsores: our own ideologies are being rewritten on social media before our own eyes

January 25, 2024 15:18
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ByNaomi Greenaway, Naomi Greenaway

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If you ever doubted whether children are influenced by what they see online, this headline in The Times recently speaks volumes: “Children are harming skin by using creams pushed on social media”. The article went on to explain that girls are becoming obsessed with skincare from a young age and using unsuitable and often damaging products they see influencers pushing online.

For me, the report came as no shock. In the run up to Chanukah my youngest daughter was campaigning for Drunk Elephant products, which are in fact more suitable for someone at least quadruple her age. The moisturiser she wanted helps the skin “retain its youthful appearance”. She’s ten. The appeal, she explained, wasn’t actually about the potion itself, but the bottle, with its clean aesthetic and signature pastel pump.

But this is what she’s seeing online and that’s without having a phone or any social media accounts of her own. As parents it’s nigh on impossible to monitor everything our children see on YouTube. And even if I had spotted my daughter watching some teenager washing and moisturising her face, I don’t think my first reaction would have been to get her to do an emergency pause and check what ingredients are in said product. There’s so much more that’s concerning on social media than inappropriate beauty products, which I guess is the real reason that headline has stuck with me. What else are children absorbing online about beauty, about body image, about relationships and also, most worrying, about us. About Jews. And about Israel. If my daughter can be persuaded that she wants an anti-ageing moisturiser, aged ten, what other messages are seeping into young minds as they are scrolling.

The parallel social media universe is certainly a powerful one, but it’s also intensely hostile. On Instagram and Tik Tok, misconceptions and lies about Israel are presented as facts: Israel is a colonial state; Israel has committed genocide. And as we know, bite-sized social media posts are often sapped of all nuances, context and complexity. And what Israel is accused of, however misguided, Jews everywhere are held culpable for. So it’s us who are bloodthirsty and us who want to oppress you, me, our kids.