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Meet Naomi Alderman, the ‘tough Jew’ asking questions

As her bestselling sci-fi novel The Power reaches our TV screens, award-winning novelist Naomi Alderman describes how her schooldays started a lifetime of questioning Orthodox attitudes towards women

March 30, 2023 16:18
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Halle Bush (Allie)
6 min read

Naomi Alderman still remembers that prickling feeling of unfairness — the uneasy sickness at something being not right — from her early time at Sinai Primary School.

Each day would start with prayers; all the children would thank God that Jews were no longer enslaved people. The girls would then say, in Hebrew, “Thank you God, for making me according to your will.” And the boys would incant, “Thank you God for not making me a woman.”

Looking back now, she laughs, “I would say potentially they put the wrong girl in that environment.

“I know that might have been fine for many women but I knew that no, it was not for me.”

While she remains imbued with her Orthodox upbringing — this is the first time I’ve ever interviewed anyone who quotes Hillel at me several times — it is no surprise that a woman with a brain as questioning as her’s also rebelled against it.

This is someone, she tells me with glee, who even writes letters to the JC to disagree with articles written in this paper by her historian father Geoffrey.

Her literary debut was 2006’s Disobedience about a North London rabbi’s bisexual daughter, which was made into a film with Rachel Weisz, but she is best known for the international bestseller The Power, which was born from growing up in a world in which women were and remain second-class citizens. Her experiences at school might have been an early education in it, but it was the secular world that showed her how entrenched it was.

“I was going through a miserable break-up, waking up every morning crying and then, eventually, getting on with my day,” she recalls. “One day I got on the Tube and there was a movie poster with a photograph of a beautiful woman crying.

“And because I was spending my mornings crying, it felt like the whole world was going, ‘Good, that’s what you should do; that’s what we like.

"We find women crying beautiful.’ And something snapped in me, I spent the rest of that journey thinking: ‘What would need to change in the world for me to go onto a Tube and see a poster of a beautiful man crying for once? And the book became an answer for that.”