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Lily’s lesson? Shoah education is possible in a world of fake news

This Holocaust Memorial Day is the first without my incredible great-grandmother, Lily Ebert

January 24, 2025 11:00
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Hungarian-born Holocaust survivor Lily Ebert (L) stands with her her great-grandson Dov Forman as she poses with her medal after being appointed a Member of the Order of the British Empire (MBE) following an investiture ceremony at Windsor Castle, on January 31, 2023. (Photo by Andrew Matthews / POOL / AFP) (Photo by ANDREW MATTHEWS/POOL/AFP via Getty Images)
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This Holocaust Memorial Day is the first without my incredible great-grandmother, Lily Ebert – Safta, as we called her. Whilst her absence feels deeply personal, it mirrors a broader reality: the survivor generation is fading away rapidly. As we lose their lived testimonies, we must find new ways to honour their stories and ensure the lessons they imparted remain vivid and impactful.

Safta survived Auschwitz-Birkenau, but she didn’t let that experience define her entirely. Instead, she built a life filled with hope and positivity, dedicating herself to sharing her testimony. At 20, in Auschwitz, she promised herself that if she survived, she would rebuild and tell her story. That promise became her life’s work, inspiring the work we did together in her later years.

In 2021, I suggested starting a TikTok account to share her story with younger generations. Safta laughed and said: “I’ll do it, but I’m not dancing!” Instead, she spoke directly to the camera, answering questions about her experiences and reflecting on kindness, tolerance, the dangers of hatred and the power of resilience. What began as a small experiment grew beyond anything we imagined: her videos reached over a billion people, with 2 million followers on TikTok alone.

These platforms gave Safta a new way to connect with the world, offering a glimpse into her life and lessons. She became “Safta” to many – a grandmother figure spreading hope in an often divided world. But this experience also revealed the double-edged nature of social media. While it enabled her message to reach millions, it also exposed the risks of distortion, trivialisation, and hate.