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Urging Israel to 'use restraint' is to deny Gazans their only escape from hell

A long as Hamas terrorists dominate there can be no liberty, freedom or security for anyone

October 26, 2023 10:55
fireball erupts during Israeli bombardment in the northern Gaza Strip Credit Getty (3)
TOPSHOT - A fireball erupts during Israeli bombardment in the northern Gaza Strip on October 14, 2023. Thousands of people, both Israeli and Palestinians have died since October 7, 2023, after Palestinian Hamas militants entered Israel in a surprise attack leading Israel to declare war on Hamas in the Gaza Strip enclave on October 8. (Photo by Aris MESSINIS / AFP) (Photo by ARIS MESSINIS/AFP via Getty Images)
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Dear Friend,

Thank you for your note saying how sorry you were about the Hamas murders of Israeli civilians. It was emotionally intelligent of you to realise how welcome it would be to hear from you as a non-Jew. It suggests you understand how isolated and scared the community feels at the moment. Hearing from you confirmed my instinct that we are not alone and that was very reassuring.

I wish I could say the same about the rest of your email, no matter how well intentioned it was.

Within a couple of sentences of your condemnation of Hamas and as its terrorist acts (though this wasn’t the phrase you used) you expressed the hope that Israel wouldn’t “seek revenge” and that “all sides should show restraint”. This was as frustrating as the beginning of your message was heart-warming.

We’ve known each other a long time and I respect you greatly. I understand that you are desperate about the innocent lives that will inevitably be lost in the war that Hamas has started. I know your reaction comes from a place of deep compassion.