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The wedding that merged two men - and two surnames

Nick Goldstein and James Werth carefully planned their perfect wedding in the sunshine — no detail was missing, except for one deliberate omission

November 29, 2018 15:58
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Nick Goldstein and James Werth belonged to same synagogue; went to the same school and lived a mile and a half from each other, but throughout their childhood they never met. Luckily a dating app brought them together in adulthood and now even their surnames are joined together, as since their marriage they have been Nick and James Goldwerth. “We knew we both wanted children and we wanted the same name as our children,” says Nick.

They also knew holidays and smoked salmon were going to be a big part of their lives — James has a travel agency and Nick owns the eponymous smoked salmon firm (both kept their single surnames for business use). Because of James’s profession, they do a lot of travelling and Nick proposed to James on a cruise, on New Year’s Eve.

They had seen the Park Hyatt hotel in Majorca being built and knew right away they wanted to celebrate their wedding there.

“It was a new hotel and we were the first big wedding — the biggest they had done before was 30 guests and we had 120,” says Nick. They made a long weekend of the wedding and included a Friday-night dinner for just over 100 of the guests. Since there were two grooms and two fathers to make speeches at the Sunday party, they decided to have the friends’ speeches on the Friday night. And instead of best men, they chose their siblings and closest friends as groomsmen and groomsmaids.